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Thank You Cards
A chic way to express your gratitude, our thank you cards are the perfect way to pen a heartfelt note to family and friends–before and after the big day. Click on the desired product below to view additional details, pricing, and book your suite.
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Wedding Thank You Cards
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before you begin…Collect all guest addresses.
This is one of those tasks that can take some time, but it'll help you know how many households you need to mail to for save the dates and invitations. Plus, it makes the stationery process go by so much faster because you already have the information ready.
To help you get started, download my Wedding Guest List Organizer here. (It’s my most-downloaded resource!)
Your Step-by-Step Guide to Writing Thoughtful Wedding Thank You Cards
As you plan your big day, there are going to be so many people to thank along the way. And while penning thoughtful wedding thank you cards may seem like a daunting task (hello, hand cramps!), it's honestly such a sincerity-filled gesture that goes a long way in showing your appreciation to all those who celebrated your special day with you.
I’m happy to guide you through the process of writing heartfelt wedding thank you cards that truly come from the heart. Whether you tied the knot recently or are in the midst of planning your big day, we've got you covered with tips, tricks, and examples to help you craft the perfect thank you message.
I’ll walk you through the process of expressing gratitude to your guests, wedding party, and vendors. From understanding the etiquette of thank you card writing to when to send them out, we'll cover everything. So grab your favorite pen and let's dive in!
The Significance of Wedding Thank You Cards
Wedding thank you cards are more than just a formality. They are a way to express your heartfelt appreciation to the people who have supported and celebrated your special day. Taking the time to write personalized thank you cards shows your guests that their presence and gifts were truly valued.
Not only do thank you cards make your guests feel appreciated, but they also give you an opportunity to reflect on your wedding day and the memories you shared with your loved ones. It's a chance to relive the joy and gratitude you felt, and to extend that warmth to those who made your day extra special.
Sending thank you cards is also a way to leave a lasting impression. By taking the time to craft thoughtful messages, you demonstrate your commitment to maintaining meaningful relationships with your guests. It's a small gesture that can have a big impact and leave a positive impression on your loved ones.
Personalizing Your Thank You Cards
Choosing the right stationery for your thank you cards is an important step in making them feel personal and special. Plus, there are so many ways to personalize your thank you cards to show your personality.
match your invitationsFirst, consider the theme and colors of your wedding. You may choose to match your thank you cards to your wedding invitations or opt for a different design that complements your wedding aesthetic. Whether you prefer classic elegance or modern simplicity, there are countless options available to suit your style.
print methodIf you’re paper obsessed and really wish for your personal stationery to stand out, opt for letterpress or foil printing. These print methods not only look and feel luxurious, but they also offer that “wow” factor for your loved ones. For a quicker turnaround time and more affordable elegance, consider digitally printed wedding thank you cards. Either way, including a hand written note on the inside will make your thank you cards feel more special when received.
envelope colorWe offer a variety of envelope options to match our wedding thank you cards. White and ivory options are a classic staple, but you may also consider complimenting your thank you cards with a pop of color.
Writing a Heartfelt Message in Your Thank You Cards
One of the most important aspects of writing wedding thank you cards is personalization. Generic thank you messages may get the job done, but they lack the personal touch that makes them truly meaningful. Taking the time to personalize each thank you card will make your guests feel valued and appreciated.
Start by addressing each card to the specific recipient. Use their full name and title, if applicable, to show respect and create a sense of personal connection. If you have a close relationship with the recipient, consider using their nickname or a more informal salutation to reflect your bond.
In your thank you message, mention the specific gift or act of kindness the recipient has given you. This shows that you took notice of their thoughtfulness and that their contribution was meaningful to you. Be specific in your description, mentioning the gift by name or detailing the act of kindness in a heartfelt manner.
To further personalize your thank you cards, include a brief anecdote or memory from your wedding day. This could be something you shared with the recipient, such as a funny moment or a heartfelt conversation. By sharing a special memory, you create a connection between your thank you card and the joyous occasion you celebrated together.
Remember, the key to personalization is to make each thank you card feel unique and tailored to the recipient. Take the time to think about each person's individual role in your wedding and the impact they had on your day. By acknowledging their specific contributions, you create a more meaningful and personal thank you message.
Structuring Your Thank You Card Wording
The message you write in your wedding thank you cards is the heart and soul of your appreciation. It's a chance to express your gratitude in words and convey how much the recipient means to you. Here are some tips to help you write heartfelt messages that resonate with your guests:
Start with a warm greetingBegin your thank you card with a warm and personal greeting. Use the recipient's name or a term of endearment if appropriate. This sets a friendly and welcoming tone for your message.
Express your gratitudeOpen your message by expressing your sincere gratitude for their presence at your wedding. Let them know how much it meant to you to have them there celebrating with you.
Be specific and personal when you canMention the specific gift or act of kindness the recipient provided. This shows that you noticed their contribution and that it was meaningful to you. Be specific in your description, using details that reflect your appreciation.
Share a memory or highlightInclude a brief anecdote or memory from your wedding day that involves the recipient. This personal touch creates a connection between your thank you card and the joyous occasion you shared.
Convey emotions: Use heartfelt language to convey your emotions and the impact the recipient had on your wedding day. Let them know how their presence or gift made you feel and how much it meant to you.
End with warm wishesWrap up your thank you card with warm wishes for the recipient. This could include wishing them well in their own life events or expressing your desire to see them again soon.
Remember, the key to writing heartfelt messages is to be genuine and sincere. Let your emotions guide your words and write from the heart. Your guests will appreciate the authenticity and thoughtfulness of your message.
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Etiquette for Addressing and Mailing Thank You Cards
As a former etiquette consultant for BRIDES Magazine, it’s safe to say I’m obsessed with etiquette. Proper etiquette for addressing and mailing thank you cards is my favorite of the process. Follow these guidelines to ensure that your thank you cards are sent out correctly and in a timely manner:
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addressingUse the recipient's full name and title, if applicable. If you have a close relationship with the recipient, you may use their nickname or a more informal salutation. Be sure to double-check the spelling of each name.
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return addressAll of our wedding stationery includes return address printing on envelopes. This allows the recipient to easily identify the sender and ensures that any undeliverable cards can be returned to you.
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postageHead to the post office to check the weight and size of your thank you cards to determine how much postage needed. Usually, it’s just one stamp! But, if you add bulky items (like ribbon or wax seals) it increases the cost.
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mailing timelineAim to send out your thank you cards no later than two months after your wedding. However, it's best to start working on them as soon as possible to ensure that the memories are fresh in your mind.
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who to send toGenerally, wedding thank you cards are mailed to members of your bridal party, those who have sent a gift, and for those who attended your wedding. You may also wish to write a thank you note to your wedding vendors.
So Happy for You!
Planning a wedding can be such an exciting (and stressful!) time. By understanding the importance of wedding thank you cards, considering factors such as who to send them to and when, and following our helpful tips for writing a sincere message, you’re now well-equipped to start penning those thank yous.
Now it’s time to share your gratitude and select your wedding thank you cards.
